The Bearing
In-depth analysis and critical discussion on important issues, how they affect people, their potential to change lives, and what needs to be done to influence outcomes.
Episodes
161 episodes since 2020
The Unspoken Truth About Being A Firstborn
Being a firstborn child is a unique role, one that is often laced with both pride and pressure. Across different cultures, firstborns are expected to be natural leaders, responsible caretakers, and, at times, trailblazers for their younger s...
September 14, 2024
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30:41
Why the Hausa Language Will Never Disappear
In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience. Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects ...
September 07, 2024
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30:43
Why Common Sense Isn’t As Common As You Think
“Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have. But here’s the qu...
August 31, 2024
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29:22
Dating: Old School Vs New Rules
In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing thei...
August 24, 2024
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29:59
How Sibling Rivalry Affects Family Bond
Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole. It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and ...
August 17, 2024
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29:32
Things You Must Do Before Turning 30
Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting. Because you would only be 20 something once.The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and lo...
August 10, 2024
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30:59
How Rising Costs Shape Student Meal Choices
Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices.Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hus...
August 03, 2024
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30:59
The Realities Corp Members Wish They Knew About Abuja
The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria. While the experience is often enrichi...
July 27, 2024
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32:14
How Procrastination Terminates Your Dreams
Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams. But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and ...
July 20, 2024
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30:00
After 18, What Shapes You More - The Street Or Parents?
In Nigeria, turning 18 is a significant milestone. It's an age when many young adults start to explore their independence, often stepping out into the world on their own. The lessons learned during this period can be critical in ...
July 13, 2024
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31:13
Would You Rather Marry A Career Woman Or A Full Housewife?
Traditionally, many cultures have valued the role of the full housewife, but the world is changing, with women chasing careers full time.Would you rather marry a career woman or a full time housewife?Join us on The ...
July 06, 2024
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24:01
Why Many Women Seek Figure 8 Body Shapes
The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country.In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.
June 29, 2024
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30:24
What You Need More Between Degrees And Skills
In today's fast-paced world, should Nigerians prefer having a degree or a skill? Given today’s job market, which holds more value? In this episode of The Bearing, we seek to find out which the Nigerian of today shoul...
June 21, 2024
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30:25
What Will Happen As 1.5 Million Muslims Gather On Mount Arafat
At least 1.5 million Muslims from all over the world have gathered on the plains of Arafah in Saudi Arabia for one of the most important Hajj rites today.Among these are 65,000 Nigerians who, despite the grueling economic situation at h...
June 15, 2024
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30:16
How Much Money Must You Have To Marry?
Marriage is a significant milestone, and preparing for it financially and emotionally is crucial for its success. But how much exactly should a man have before he can get married?Does taking this big step require financia...
June 08, 2024
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29:29
"Why I Am Still In Trauma 10 Years After I Lost My Husband"
Trauma experienced when losing someone, often referred to as grief, involves intense emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical distress in response to the death of a loved one.How do people deal with the trauma of losing someo...
June 01, 2024
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25:34
The Truth About Online Dating
The days where one needed a friend to connect with a host of other friends are fast becoming obsolete- A little tap on the net does the magic!.In this episode of The Bearing, we uncover the truth and dynamics of online dating.
May 25, 2024
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30:33
“I Am Heavily Pregnant, Yet Can’t Afford Antenatal Care”
Aisha is a 24-year-old lady who is heavily pregnant. Like many expectant mothers, she dreams of delivering a healthy baby safe and sound. But, unlike many, she faces severe economic challenges that make even the most basic an...
May 18, 2024
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28:48
How Social Media Money Is Forcing The Youth Out Of School
What would you do if, as a student, you discover that you could make a lot of money on social media, especially if you struggle to find food to eat?What would you do if, as a parent, your child decides to drop out to make mon...
May 11, 2024
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26:27
How To Avoid Any Regrets In Life
As they grow older, many people look back on their life and regret certain actions or inactions; missed opportunities or unfulfilled goals. In this episode of The Bearing, we will be at the most common of these regrets and how to a...
May 04, 2024
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25:10
The Shock Some Brides Never Recover From
Marriage is a new experience for couples, especially young girls.Hence the need to teach a bride-to-be the things to expect and how to manage them, because how they are approached can make or mar the marriage. What are those ...
April 27, 2024
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30:09
How To Draw Up A 'Spec' For Successful Marriages
A spec is a list of qualities that a person wants in a potential wife or husband. Do you have one? How do you craft a spec for a successful marriage?In this episode of The Bearing, young men and women share with us how discov...
April 20, 2024
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30:00
Why It's Not Okay To Live With Your Partner Before Marriage
There is never an end to getting to know someone especially when it involves marriageIs it okay to live with your partner, or fiancé before marriage? Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast as we find out,
February 17, 2024
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26:32
AFCON Means A Lot More To Nigerians
The final of the 34th AFCON edition is set. Nigeria will play hosts Ivory Coast on Sunday, in what promises to be a nail-biter.The Super Eagles are in the final for the first time since 2013 after beating South Africa in the semi-final ...
February 10, 2024
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