The Bearing
In-depth analysis and critical discussion on important issues, how they affect people, their potential to change lives, and what needs to be done to influence outcomes.
Episodes
168 episodes
How High Costs Of Marriage Rites Are Restricting Men From Tying The Knot
In Nigeria, marriage is a deeply rooted cultural union that extends beyond two individuals. However, rising costs of living are making it increasingly difficult for men to fulfill the marriage requirements, be they “lefe” in...
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Are Givers Starting To Lack As The Economy Bites Harder?
In Nigeria, communal solidarity is deeply embedded in cultural values. One of the most visible expressions of this is charitable giving, where compassionate individuals share food, clothing, and resources with those in need. ...
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Why Parents Are Wrong Sometimes
The saying, “Parents are always right” has been passed down through generations, deeply woven into cultural and societal fabric. But in today’s world, is this long-standing notion still valid? While parents often hav...
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Why Elders Are Losing Their Voices In Some Families
Traditionally, Nigerian culture holds elders in high esteem, valuing their wisdom and leadership in maintaining family order and passing down cultural values. However, as society progresses and modernizes, the authority of e...
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A Guide To Living A Debt-Free Life In Nigeria
Living debt-free in Nigeria may appear like an elusive goal for many due to the country’s economic challenges. Rising inflation, unemployment, fluctuating exchange rates, and the increasing cost of living have pushed many Ni...
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Why "Soft Life” Is The New Success
The idea of the “soft life” has ignited a wave of conversations, challenging how we traditionally define success, hard work, and personal fulfillment. In an era dominated by hustle culture, more people are turning toward a lifestyle that pri...
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Smart Work Strategies For Nigerians
Hustle culture refers to the mentality that glorifies constant work, where productivity and financial success are seen as the ultimate goals. It’s the “no-days-off” mindset that encourages individuals to always be working on...
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The Unspoken Truth About Being A Firstborn
Being a firstborn child is a unique role, one that is often laced with both pride and pressure. Across different cultures, firstborns are expected to be natural leaders, responsible caretakers, and, at times, trailblazers for their younger s...
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Why the Hausa Language Will Never Disappear
In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience. Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects ...
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Why Common Sense Isn’t As Common As You Think
“Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have. But here’s the qu...
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Dating: Old School Vs New Rules
In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing thei...
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How Sibling Rivalry Affects Family Bond
Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole. It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and ...
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Things You Must Do Before Turning 30
Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting. Because you would only be 20 something once.The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and lo...
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How Rising Costs Shape Student Meal Choices
Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices.Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hus...
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The Realities Corp Members Wish They Knew About Abuja
The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria. While the experience is often enrichi...
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How Procrastination Terminates Your Dreams
Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams. But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and ...
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After 18, What Shapes You More - The Street Or Parents?
In Nigeria, turning 18 is a significant milestone. It's an age when many young adults start to explore their independence, often stepping out into the world on their own. The lessons learned during this period can be critical in ...
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Would You Rather Marry A Career Woman Or A Full Housewife?
Traditionally, many cultures have valued the role of the full housewife, but the world is changing, with women chasing careers full time.Would you rather marry a career woman or a full time housewife?Join us on The ...
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Why Many Women Seek Figure 8 Body Shapes
The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country.In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.
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What You Need More Between Degrees And Skills
In today's fast-paced world, should Nigerians prefer having a degree or a skill? Given today’s job market, which holds more value? In this episode of The Bearing, we seek to find out which the Nigerian of today shoul...
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What Will Happen As 1.5 Million Muslims Gather On Mount Arafat
At least 1.5 million Muslims from all over the world have gathered on the plains of Arafah in Saudi Arabia for one of the most important Hajj rites today.Among these are 65,000 Nigerians who, despite the grueling economic situation at h...
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How Much Money Must You Have To Marry?
Marriage is a significant milestone, and preparing for it financially and emotionally is crucial for its success. But how much exactly should a man have before he can get married?Does taking this big step require financia...
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"Why I Am Still In Trauma 10 Years After I Lost My Husband"
Trauma experienced when losing someone, often referred to as grief, involves intense emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical distress in response to the death of a loved one.How do people deal with the trauma of losing someo...
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